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A Broader View — Somewhere Above the Clouds 🌍

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  On 7th December, I was on a flight from New Delhi to Pune . The original plan was to fly from Ranchi to Pune, but it got re-planned via Delhi, and I chose the 3rd alternate Indigo-provided route . My 9-year-old son, Sahaj, was traveling with me—and happily secured the window seat. As soon as the flight took off, Sahaj looked outside and said excitedly, “Papa, look! There are so many buildings, what an amazing view of the Indian capital!” As the aircraft climbed higher, I added, “Yes, Sahaj. See closely—so many offices, apartments… even schools like yours.” We went higher still. “Now you can see entire cities,” I said. “And if we could go even higher—higher than this domestic flight allows—we’d see countries as well.” Then, as the clouds cleared, the Chambal Valleys unfolded beneath us, with the Chambal River carving its way through the land. Sahaj stared in silence for a moment. “This,” I said softly, “is the power of a broader view.” Sahaj turned towards me, questioning...

The Day the "Frozen" Image Melted: A Lesson from Two Kids and a Projector 🎥🏠

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This is a beautiful story about "unfreezing" the identities we create for others. It moves from a simple parenting moment to a profound leadership lesson. On Saturday, December 20th, my home theater was buzzing. My kids, Swasti (6) and Sahaj (9), were planning a movie show on our mini projector. But as the guest list was discussed, a debate emerged. Sahaj was firm: " Vatsalya is invited. Varang is not." When I asked why, Sahaj explained that Varang was "too much trouble"—he does too much masti and disturbs the group. Instead of correcting him, I invited him to reflect. " The Mind’s Highlighter " 🧠 I told Sahaj: "Your mind is currently highlighting only the bad moments. We often take one single incident and 'freeze' a person’s identity there. But people aren't statues; they are like a # FlowingRiver 🌊. While you aren't with Varang, he is learning, growing, and changing." I asked him not to trap Varang in a single ...